Giving flowers in the West dates back to the 1700s when Charles
II of Sweden introduced the Iranian custom of "the language of
flowers" to Europe.Iranians
since ancient times have had a custom of giving flowers for various
occasions. The type of flower given related to the essence of the
message being portrayed.
Although giving flowers has now
become quite common practice in the West, and particularly so in
some countries such as Poland, Iranians are still probably the most
'intense flower giving nation'. Flower stores and stands, can be
found on every street corner in Iranian cities, and great care goes
into preparing each bouquet for the customer.
Here is a rough guide to this
language of flowers which has developed over the centuries.
- Acacia - Secret love
- Acorn - Nordic symbol of life
and immortality
- Aloe - Grief
- Allspice - Compassion
- Ambrosia - Love returned
- Amaryllis - Pride; Timidity
- Anemone - Unfading love
- Angelica - Inspiration
- Aniseed - Restoration of youth
- Arbutis - Only love
- Apple - Preference
- Aster - Love; daintiness
- Azalea - Take care of yourself
for me; fragile passion; Chinese symbol of womanhood
- Bachelor Button - Celibacy
- Baby's Breath - Everlasting
Love
- Basil - Best Wishes, Love
- Bay Leaf - Strength
- Begonia - Beware
- Bells Of Ireland - Good luck
- Bird Of Paradise - Magnificence
- Bittersweet - Truth
- Bluebell - Humility; constancy
- Borage - Courage
- Bouquet of withered flowers -
Rejected love
- Burnet - A merry heart
- Buttercup - Cheerfulness
- Cactus - Endurance; warmth
- Calendula - Joy
- Camellia - Admiration;
perfection; good luck gift to a man
- Candytuft - indifference
- Carnation (in general) Bonds of
affection; health and energy; fascination; woman love
- Carnation (pink) - I'll never
forget you
- Carnation (purple) -
Capriciousness; whimsical; changeable
- Carnation (red) - My heart
aches for you; admiration
- Carnation (solid color) -Yes
- Carnation (striped)- No;
refusal; sorry I can't be with you; wish I could be with you
- Carnation (white) -Sweet and
lovely; innocence; pure love; woman's good luck gift
- Carnation (yellow) - Rejection;
disdain
- Cattail - Peace; prosperity
- Chamomile - Patience ; attracts
wealth
- Chrysanthemum (in general) -
Cheerfulness; You're a wonderful friend
- Chrysanthemum (red) - I love
- Chrysanthemum (white) - Truth
- Chrysanthemum (yellow)
-Slighted love
- Coreopsis - Always cheerful
- Coriander - Lust
- Cowslip - Pensiveness; winning
grace
- Crocus - Cheerfulness; abuse
not
- Cyclamen - Resignation and
goodbye
- Clover Good luck
- Daffodil Respect
- Daisy Innocence
- Dandelion Wishes come true
- Fennel - Worthy of all praise
- Fern - Sincerity
- Forget-Me-Not - True love
- Fern (Magic) - Fascination;
confidence and shelter
- Fern (Maidenhair) - Secret bond
of love
- Feverfew - Protection
- Fir - Time
- Flax - Domestic symbol; fate
- Forget-me-not - True love;
memories
- Forsythia - Anticipation
- Gardenia - You're lovely;
secret love
- Garland of roses - Reward of
virtue
- Garlic - Courage; strength
- Geranium (Scented) - Preference
- Gladiolus - Love at first sight
- Grass - Submission; utility
- Heather (lavender) -
Admiration; solitude
- Heather (white) - Protection;
wishes will come true
- Hibiscus - Delicate beauty
- Holly - Good will,
Defense;domestic Happiness; foresight
- Honeysuckle - Generous and
devoted affection
- Hyacinth (general) - Games and
sports; rashness;flower dedicated to Apollo
- Hyacinth (blue) - Constancy
- Hyacinth ( purple) - I'm sorry;
please forgive me; sorrow
- Hyacinth (red or pink) - Play
- Hyacinth (white) - Loveliness;
I'll pray for you
- Hyacinth (yellow) - Jealousy
- Hydrangea - Thank you for
understanding; frigidity; heartlessness
- Hyssop - Wards away evil
spirits
- Iris - Faith; hope; wisdom and
valor
- Ivy - Fidelity and friendship
- Ivy - sprig of white tendrils -
Anxious to please; affection
- Jasmine - Amiability; attracts
wealth
- Jonquil - Love me; affection
returned; desire; sympathy; desire for a return of affection
- Juniper Protection
- Larkspur - pink - Fickleness
- Lavender - Devotion
- Lemon - Zest
- Lemon Balm - Brings love
- Lemon verbena - Attracts
opposite sex
- Lily (general) - Keeps unwanted
visitors away
- Lily (calia) - Beauty
- Lily (day) - Coquetry
- Lily (eucharis) - Maiden charms
- Lily (orange) - Hatred
- Lily (tiger) - Wealth; pride
- Lily (white) - Virginity;
purity; majesty; it's heavenly to be with you
- Lily (yellow) - I'm walking on
air; false and gay
- Lily of the valley - sweetness;
return to happiness; humility
- Magnolia - Sweetness; beauty;
love of nature
- Marigold - Comforts the heart
- Mint - Protection from illness;
warmth of feeling
- Marjoram (sweet) - Joy and
happiness
- Mistletoe - Kiss me; affection;
to surmount difficulties; sacred plant of India
- Monkshood - Beware, a deadly
foe is near; chivalry
- Moss - Maternal love; charity
- Myrtle - Love; Hebrew emblem of
marriage
- Narcissus - Egotism; formality;
stay as sweet as you are
- Nasturtium - Conquest; victory
in battle; maternal love; charity; patriotism
- Oleander - Caution; beware
- Orange Generosity
- Orange Blossom - Brings wisdom
- Orange Mock - Deceit
- Orchid - Love; beauty;
refinement; beautiful lady; Chinese symbol for many children
- Orchid (cattleya) - Mature
charm
- Palm leaves - Victory and
success
- Pansy - Thoughts; love
- Peach Longevity
- Peony - Aphrodisiac
- Petunia - Resentment; anger;
your presence soothes me
- Pine - Hope; pity
- Poppy (general) - Eternal sleep
; oblivion; imagination
- Poppy (red) -Pleasure;
consolation
- Poppy (white) - Consolation;
sleep
- Poppy( yellow) - Wealth;
success
- Prickly Pear - Satire
- Primrose - I can't live without
you; early youth
- Primrose(evening) - Inconstancy
- Rose (general)(Red) - Love ; I
love you
- Rose( white) - Eternal Love ;
innocence; heavenly; secrecy and silence
- Rose(pink) - Perfect happiness;
please believe me
- Rose(Yellow) - Friendship ;
jealousy; try to care
- Rose(Black) -Death
- Rose(red and white) - Together;
unity
- Rose(thornless) - Love at first
sight
- Rose( single, full bloom) - I
love you; I still love you
- Rose bud - Beauty and youth ; a
heart innocent of love
- Rose bud(red) - Pure and lovely
- Rose bud(white) - Girlhood
- Rosebud (moss) - Confessions of
love
- Roses(Bouquet of full bloom) -
Gratitude
- Roses( Garland or crown of) -
Beware of virtue; reward of merit; crown ; symbol of superior
merit
- Roses ( musk cluster) -
Charming
- Rose(tea) - I'll always
remember
- Rose(cabbage) - Ambassador of
love
- Rose(Christmas) - Tranquilize
my anxiety; anxiety
- Rose(damask) - Brilliant
complexion
- Rose(dark crimson) - Mourning
- Rose(hibiscus) - Delicate
beauty
- Rose leaf - You may hope
- Rosemary - Remembrance
- Sage Wisdom - long life
- Salvia -(blue) I think of you
- Smilax - Loveliness
- Snapdragon - Deception;
gracious lady; presumption
- Spiderflower - Elope with me
- Stephanotis - Happiness in
marriage; desire to travel
- Stock - Lasting beauty
- Strawberry - Perfect goodness
- Sunflower - Loyalty; wishes
- Sweetpea - Goodbye; departure;
blissful pleasure; Thank you for a lovely time
- Thyme - Strength and courage;
ensures restful sleep
- Tulip(general) - Fame,charity;
perfect lover
- Tulip(red) - Believe me;
declaration of love
- Tulip(variegated) - Beautiful
eyes
- Tulip(yellow) - Hopeless love
- Violet - Modesty; calms
tempers; induces sleep
- Violet(blue) - Watchfulness;
faithfulness; I'll always be true
- Violet(white) - Let's take a
chance on happiness
- Viscaria - Will you dance with
me?
- Woodruff - sweet humility
- Zinnia - Thoughts of friends
- Zinnia(magenta) - Lasting
affection
- Zinnia(mixed) - Thinking of an
absent friend
- Zinnia(scarlet) - Constancy
- Zinnia(white) - Goodness
- Zinnia(yellow) - Daily
remembrance
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